I talk a lot about dating men and how to understand them to get the man you deserve, but what if while you are pursuing, you are also the one getting pursued? What happens when someone hits on you and they suck?
Well, I always believe in politeness and giving out what you would want to get back. I am not one for ladies who are too up themselves that they cannot be civil to someone who has plucked up the nerve to ask them out respectfully.
It is hard to be rejected and we never know how many times the rejectee may have faced this particular scenario so lets look at how we can let a suitor down gently.
If you need to break up with someone then there is no need to pinpoint every single thing about them that you do not like. It serves no purpose except to be a little spiteful, which frankly might be appropriate if they were an absolute horror! But if you have been seeing someone for a short while and just decide that although they are very nice they are just not for you, the best thing is to make your reason very general and not personally about them. You could say that you are studying and don't think you would be being fair on them as you don't have sufficient time to give them.
Of course if you are doing your best to cushion the blow and they just aren't getting the message you may have to harden the delivery somewhat as clearly some people will hear only what they want to hear on these occasions.
The same applies when a man has made the long walk to you across a bar or a party. As they don't know you at all at this point a little white lie may suffice such as saying that you are already with someone else.
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