How to Attract a Guy and Keep Him

Let's Figure Out What You Shouldn't Do

First of all, this article is assuming that you want to attract a guy who is worth having. Also, that you are not searching for some guy who has never grown up and is searching for a "mommy type girlfriend or wife." With that in mind here are some key lessons on how to attract and keep a guy.

You don't want to treat a guy as somebody who needs to be told what to do all the time. You are looking for trouble when you start to ride herd over a guy all the time. likewise, if you find it necessary to find fault with him and be corrective of his every movement. If you insist on this type of behavior, then the risk of his ending the relationship with you will definitely increase. Guys are not trying to be labeled the "model boyfriend" or even husband. With them it's "Take me as I am." If you do, you'll have to deal with that condition on those terms.

A Guy's Wish List

1. They desire to be with a woman who thinks they are humorous and who laughs with them.2. Guys really need to please a woman. When a guy struggles with this if could even cause him to end the relationship.3. A man seeks a woman's acknowledgment of their accomplishments as well as being recognized.4. They want the woman to act feminine and dress accordingly.5. They want to understand what really moves the woman and warms her heart.

So What's A Woman to Do Now That You Got Him?

Now the woman has to make sure to establish the relationship standards. The reason for this is the woman is the heart of the relationship. This is because men are not very adept at matters of the heart. That is because men can't express their feelings or emotions very well. The starting point in the relationship is for the woman to establish an aura around her where it is the man's desire to be with her constantly. She accomplishes this by establishing her own self respect and confidence that is exuded to the people around her. You probably have seen these kind of women who walk into a room and people are immediately attracted to her. She is a woman of self assurance and confidence. The man can't help but become fascinated with her and her charm. A man wants to please a woman who has these qualities and you will be surprised how far he will go once you have set up these standards.

Here Ended the Lesson

Attracting a guy isn't difficult once you comprehend what they are seeking. What many women don't grasp is that they really do control the game of love. Where they fail is to think that they have to be totally subservient to the man. Nothing could be further from the truth. Once you understand this, you can build your relationship on mutual respect and love while fulfilling each others needs. If you do this properly, then the next time you have to attract a guy may be your last.