Dating Tips - How To Keep A Girl Attracted To You

Its been said that attraction isn't a choice and that when we feel attracted to the opposite sex its a gut level and instinctive reaction. This is most certainly true when we first meet and connect with someone, but as we've all seen this feeling tends to fade over time and unless attraction happens on an emotional level it probably won't last long. One of the biggest challenges men face when dating attractive women is to keep them interested. Attractive girls have choices and get approached by guys all the time.

Many guys bring their "A game" when they first meet a girl and as time goes by they get way too comfortable and drop their guard. Once you lose a girl's interest in you it can be incredibly hard to recapture it. The truth is that when a girl falls for you, she usually falls for you on a gut level and understanding this attraction is what's important in keeping the attraction alive.

One of the first things you need to do to keep the spark alive is to keep things interesting. Don't allow your relationship to get boring. Unlike guys, girls like excitement and the thrill of the new and different things. Women also like guys who are adventurous and who dare new things. Being boring is one sure fire way to let the spark between you and her die out.

Another powerful way to keep her interested in you is to inject some doubt into her mind. Never let a girl become too comfortable that she is the only one for you. A little bit of doubt can go a long way. Talk to other women. be friendly with other girls and if you have attractive female friends, make some time to hang out with them. Your girlfriend has to know that you have "options" as well. This will motivate her unlike anything to "win you over" and there is nothing like a bit of jealousy to keep things alive.

The First Stage Of Seduction

Even if your spell were awesome, would take the woman you lust unsuccessful in her presence? Initially, your goals must be revised downwards. Your main concern when a woman likes you, is that you should be spending time with her, if possible alone...so that your charm can work.. Although this task is less ambitious..yet this task is quite difficult because your beautiful one knows that she will be committed if she accepts.. So you will need to be convincing and especially reassuring. "All good, all honor" should be your motto.

If you choose to approach a stranger, You should find ways to keep their attention, before you even think to ask her for her phone number because it's her time.. to her, she knows that you need to seduce. Attention: No need to throw her off her feet or make grand statements: simply look for an excuse to engage in a conversation, without raising her suspicions. A good way is to ask information leading her to talk to you... If she answers yes or no, it simply means your questions were bad..You'll need to review your questions for the next time!!!!

The trick, if you want to master the art of approaching women, of course, is saying little because the more you will oblige your dove to seek clarification, piqued by curiosity, tormented by the mystery - It will be her who will take the initiative to continue the conversation, sweeping in without any suspicions on your part.

A concrete example to try, for those in need...is to ask her if, like you, she's found that magazine articles are flat and boring. Show her vaguely what you hold in your hands. She will be wanting more, otherwise she can not really answer you. Read the pieces that you have carefully selected before.. If she laugh, you're on the right track and get her number, when leaving...

For if there is a secret to use for the conversation that you initiated not to fall flat, it is certainly to remain enigmatic...Train yourself to reverse the roles in the conversation.. You will end up believing she wants to spend time with you.

Say you had a good time with her.. Suggest that you'd like to see her again...

Attention: it must be concrete. For example, ask her out for a drink with friends (who will of course, not come)...If you know her tastes, offer an activity accordingly. But even if she refuses, she will undoubtedly leave her phone number or a way to see her! If not, well that's OK!. This is called a try.. Perfection only comes with time and lots of practice.

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