How to Turn a Casual Date Into a Long-Term Relationship

I have yet to meet one guy who hasn't been on a casual date with a woman and they instantly connected. All of a sudden they start seeing themselves with this woman long-term. I admit, this has happened to me as well which is why the topic of this article is about how to turn a casual date into a long-term relationship.

Most men have a pattern with their dating history which is why a lot of men really need to learn how to do things differently. Let's face it, we all can stand some room for improvement which is probably why you are reading this article right now. Obviously there is something we should do differently.

The majority of women, not all but most, have a basic thinking pattern as well. If a guy chases them then they run the opposite direction. If he doesn't then that just makes them that more curious about the guy. So basically if you call her all the time, she's not that eager to hear from you. But if you only call her a couple times a week, she'll think of you much more often.

Here is the bottom line that I have learned if you want to turn a casual date into a long-term relationship. Women respond better if you don't pressure them.

When you take a woman out on a date, don't let the conversation get too heavy. The purpose of these first few dates is to get to know each other. Don't let your mind start wondering to whether or not she's already thinking long-term or not. The whole point of going out with women is to find that one special someone and you can't do that on the first couple of dates.

Also, always be open to possibilities. Like there have been times when I've taken a lady out and I told myself beforehand that I am not looking for someone to date. I just want to go out, enjoy someone's company and just have some fun. But the next thing you know, we really hit it off and we have so much in common that I can see myself changing my mind. Just give it some time and don't pressure yourself.

If you decide that you really like her, only call her a couple times a week. Plan to go out a couple times a week and do this for a couple of months. Don't rush anything because you need to get to know her better. If you decide that in the meantime you would like to still date other women, do that too. You need to do what is right for you.

Don't fall back into the pattern of calling her every single day because before long you will find yourself stuck in something you don't want and too afraid to hurt her feelings by telling her you've changed your mind. Take it slow, get to know her, call her only a couple times a week and take her out just a couple times a week as well. Give this time to grow and build.

I hope some of these tips helped with how to turn a casual date into a long-term relationship. I wish you guys all the best.

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