Its been said that attraction isn't a choice and that when we feel attracted to the opposite sex its a gut level and instinctive reaction. This is most certainly true when we first meet and connect with someone, but as we've all seen this feeling tends to fade over time and unless attraction happens on an emotional level it probably won't last long. One of the biggest challenges men face when dating attractive women is to keep them interested. Attractive girls have choices and get approached by guys all the time.
Many guys bring their "A game" when they first meet a girl and as time goes by they get way too comfortable and drop their guard. Once you lose a girl's interest in you it can be incredibly hard to recapture it. The truth is that when a girl falls for you, she usually falls for you on a gut level and understanding this attraction is what's important in keeping the attraction alive.
One of the first things you need to do to keep the spark alive is to keep things interesting. Don't allow your relationship to get boring. Unlike guys, girls like excitement and the thrill of the new and different things. Women also like guys who are adventurous and who dare new things. Being boring is one sure fire way to let the spark between you and her die out.
Another powerful way to keep her interested in you is to inject some doubt into her mind. Never let a girl become too comfortable that she is the only one for you. A little bit of doubt can go a long way. Talk to other women. be friendly with other girls and if you have attractive female friends, make some time to hang out with them. Your girlfriend has to know that you have "options" as well. This will motivate her unlike anything to "win you over" and there is nothing like a bit of jealousy to keep things alive.
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