Crazy First Date Ideas That Will Make Your Date Want More!

Okay, not crazy as in mentally nuts, but you have to provide them with an experience that will go beyond the normal first date experience. However, you also need to be a little careful as to not make yourself look like a raging goofball at the same time.

Let's look at how you can do this...

1) Do the unexpected. Now, the unexpected is different for everyone, so there is no rubber stamping this process. What you have to do is find something that is totally opposite of what people would expect of you.

For example, if you're a 9 to 5 business man that normally wears a suit and tie, then one would likely expect you to eat at a 5-star restaurant on a first date. Instead, plan a date where you go hiking in a nice nature area and have a picnic created by you for lunch or dinner. This is always a huge hit for ladies of all types.

2) Get outside your normal comfort zone. Many men and women have reservations about doing certain things alone. For example, few people want to go to a new spa or massage parlor alone for the first time. Of course, they would love to have a nice massage, but just feel awkward going alone to a new place - especially one where they put their hands on you.

Now, think about what impact you will make on your date if you both had a nice "couple massage" together at the spa before dinner. The awkward feeling would be gone and they'd feel incredible - all thanks to you. And yes, a couple's message is very popular and commonly offered at many massage parlors.

3) Bring the excitement and adventure with a nice game of laser tag! This is very popular in many cities and couples of all ages find it enjoyable. Of course, it's usually geared toward the 40 and under crowd, but if you feel like it, and can do it, you may want to give it a try. Basically it's like playing tag but with a laser toy gun. It's cool.

The idea here is to leave an impression that's not like any other impression they've ever had on a first date, or any date for that matter. Typically people are conditioned to the same old "dinner and movie" process. Try veering from that process as much as possible and you can be sure that you will make memorable experience.