5 Things Women Want You to Know

Growing up our house was basically all women. Besides my mother, I also have three sisters, each very different in their thinking and behavior. So it's safe to say that I have learned a lot from their experiences. Not only have I heard their personal stories about men, but also from their friends as well. Here are 5 things women want you to know.

1. Guys Deal With Approach Anxiety

Women truly have no idea that guys deal with approach anxiety. I can't tell you how many times I've heard this from my women friends. I was not only shocked but very surprised. Seriously, they had no clue whatsoever that guys are deathly afraid to approach women. They can't believe guys are scared to talk to them. In their minds, what's to be afraid of!

So I asked the ladies why most men are shot down pretty quickly whenever they do pay them some type of compliment and their response was because they just assume the guys aren't really that interested in them. They honestly believe that the majority of guys are not attracted to them in the least. Wow!

2. Guys Won't Approach Women

For some reason, we as men seem to lump all women into a different category. We don't view them as human beings, like we are. Maybe that's our way of coping should they reject us right off the bat. But women are just as human as we are. If something good happens to them they are happy and if something bad happens then they are sad. Just the same as we are. They are honestly at a loss as to why we just won't approach them.

But here is one thing for sure about women. Don't expect them to make the first move. That's just not going to happen. Women are attracted to guys that are confident and guys who will lead.

3. Guys Who Are Confident

Women are more attracted to men who are confident. If you approach a woman and your stomach is tied up in knots and you are tripping all over your words, she is not going to be impressed at all. Oh sure, she might think you are nice but that's about it.

Remember that women don't know anything about the anxiety men have when approaching women so they just assume that's how you always are. If you show confidence and treat a woman well upon your initial meeting, she will reciprocate and treat you in the manner you deserve.

4. Why Women Are Rude

Women respond to men who are confident. If you approach a woman and come off as overbearing, obnoxious or arrogant, don't be surprised if they respond to you in a rude manner. Let's face it guys, if someone were to approach you in any of those manners, you would do the same. Once you make that initial connection and she enjoys engaging in some playful banter then fine. But you can't expect to insult her upon your first meeting and she falls head over heels for you. It's just not going to happen.

5. Why Women Think Some Guys Are Jerks

It should be pretty obvious by now why women think some guys are jerks. You've read the previous points so it's a pretty logical conclusion why women would feel this way.

The reason most of us don't approach women is because we either think we may be bothering them or we are scared of rejection. We are trying to be polite and respect their privacy. While on the other hand, you have the guy that doesn't give a darn about how they feel and who isn't afraid. He has no social skills and is going to dive right in anyway. Which ends up leading most women to the conclusion that guys are just jerks because these are the types of guys they have to deal with. They end up lumping the majority of men into that category.

The truth of the matter is that women are aware that there are some great guys out there and they continue to be baffled as to why they aren't able to meet any. They are waiting for that one guy to approach them that oozes with confidence and makes her comfortable. This is the kind of man they have been dreaming about and searching for all this time.

So there you have it, the 5 things women want you to know. Straight from their mouth and boy were they great lessons for me. Honestly they had no idea guys deal with approach anxiety, why guys won't approach women, they admire guys who are confident, why women are rude and why women think some guys are jerks.

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